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Choose Your Words Carefully Mom They Last Forever

in Parenting on 03/16/23

As Moms we talk to our kids everyday - click through NOW to see how our words should be chosen with care...

Choose Your Words Carefully Mom They Last Forever

Do we, as Moms, know how much power our words wield with our kids?  We need to remember to choose our words carefully because they DO last forever.

I mean, think about it, the words your Mother spoke to you as a kid, teen, young adult, and even now ring in your ears. Today, we often make decisions based on what our Moms told us as children.

We don’t realize even the little things “stick” in our kid’s heads, whether they are 2 or full-grown with families of their own.

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I was talking with a group of women last night about this.  One of the women was in her 30’s and moved here from another country 9 months ago. 

She was telling us that she had been stressing herself out over a failure she had encountered because she didn’t want her Mother to be disappointed.   She knew her Mother would tell her that she must do better, which made her afraid even to tell her Mother she had failed.

I thought about the statement we all heard as kids and how it formed my view of food.  I was always told to clean my plate.  I always cleaned my plate. Even when I was over 100 lbs overweight, I was cleaning ALL of my plates! Lol

But, that was a problem.  It’s still hard for me to walk away from food on my plate, but I have taught myself to stop when I am comfortably full.  I remember eating until my stomach hurt, and I would be in pain for hours afterward.  Of course, my lack of self-control was the biggest factor in my weight gain, not my Mother’s words, but they are a factor.

My kids are grown now; I can’t imagine what I might have said in haste or without thinking that affects them today as adults.  I can tell you I had one child who always equated the words “That was dumb.” with the words “You are dumb.” 

If I said something he did was dumb or stupid, he felt I thought HE was dumb or stupid.  We often discussed the difference, but to him, it was me calling him that.

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Today, after they have all grown up, I am much more careful choosing my words when talking to them about their adult lives, spouses, and children.  It’s their turn to live their lives, so I try and remember they will do things differently, and that’s ok.  But, I don’t want my words ringing in their ears to affect them negatively. 

I only wish I had learned this lesson earlier… Choose your words wisely, especially when speaking to your children.  Even when it seems like they don’t hear you, they are taking in everything you are saying, and it sticks.

What words from your Mother still form your actions today?

As Moms we talk to our kids everyday - click through NOW to see how our words should be chosen with care...
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Dian is a mom of four grown children, Nana to 6 beautiful grands, wife to an amazing husband, social influencer, and blogger. I love all things gardening, saving money, tips & tricks to make life easier, ANY cool new gadget, and feeding my Reality TV addiction (it's real y'all, you have no idea!) Dian has been featured in person, in print, and on sites like Huff Post, CBSNews, Blog Talk Radio, NBC DFW, Babble, Woman's Day, All You Magazine, Super Market News, Clark, & Pinner's Conferences. Want to know more? Check out the full bio here!

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