Get Your FREE Weekly Meal Planner Here

Get it NOW!

GSFF

  • Start Here
  • Budgeting
  • Organization
  • Making Money
  • Shop
  • Free Printables
  • About
You are here: Home / Rants / Intolerance Or A Difference Of Opinion?
 Post may contain affiliate links. Click to read Disclosure . Click to read Privacy Policy. 

Intolerance Or A Difference Of Opinion?

in Rants on 04/02/14

  •  shares
  • Facebook
  • Pinterest
  • Flipboard
  • Twitter

If I listen to your point of view, but don’t agree with it – that means I am intolerant?

If I don’t celebrate your belief with you, then I’m intolerant — even if you don’t celebrate my beliefs with me?

That doesn’t sound right, but, if you think so… that’s fine with me, because in my eyes that is called a difference of opinion.

Intolerance Or A Difference Of Opinion?

Intolerance Or A Difference Of Opinion?

I feel if I were “intolerant” I would be standing on a street corner blocking you from doing whatever it is I am intolerant of, again, if I am intolerant for not thinking, or believing the way you do, to me, that is what makes us not clones.

I can disagree with you, I can feel or believe you are wrong, and you have the same right, and I am okay with that.

I wouldn’t say you were intolerant of my views or beliefs, I would say you disagree with them, and that’s what makes us unique.

When did the definition of intolerance change to:  “disagree with”?  Or the definition of tolerate become:  “celebrate”?

Intolerance Or A Difference Of Opinion?

The definition of tolerance is:

allow the existence, occurrence, or practice of (something that one does not necessarily like or agree with) without interference.

Reading the definition of tolerance above, that says to me that anyone who wants to interfere with my beliefs is the intolerant one.

You see, I am not interfering with your beliefs, I just don’t hold them to be MY beliefs.

Being tolerant of views, beliefs, or behavior doesn’t mean I have to agree with them, vote for them, or even pretend I agree with them. 

What it means is you have your views, beliefs, and behavior and I have mine and again, that’s okay.

I believe that Jesus Christ is the sinless Son of God, that Heaven and Hell are real places, in a literal 7 day creation, I take the Bible at its word and IF you don’t – that, to me, doesn’t mean you are intolerant, or a terrible person, or that we can’t be friends, co-exist, love and laugh, and even enjoy each other’s company. 

It’s what makes up the world, differing views, beliefs and behaviors.

I also believe people should discipline their children more, but that doesn’t mean I’m intolerant of the parents or the children’s behavior, or that I can’t love the parents and children,  it just means I disagree with their parenting beliefs and that’s fine.

Please think twice before throwing the word intolerant around and at people, because in doing so, you might just be pointing out that you’re the intolerant one.

  •  shares
  • Facebook
  • Pinterest
  • Flipboard
  • Twitter


Dian1

Add a Comment

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

More You Might Like:

An assortment of grocery items including canned goods, cereal, produce, and packaged foods spread across a kitchen counter—showing the mix of brand-name and budget-friendly options.

5 Things You’re Probably Overpaying For (and How to Stop)

A variety of fresh groceries and pantry staples—like lettuce, pasta, carrots, apples, and jars of sauce—arranged on a kitchen counter with a neutral-toned backdrop.

Budget Meals That Don’t Feel Cheap (Your Family Will Actually Want Seconds)

Fresh groceries including meats, canned goods, and produce arranged on a kitchen counter, ready for prepping multiple meals.

How to Stretch One Grocery Trip into 10+ Meals (Without Feeling Like You’re Eating the Same Thing)

How to Make Your Small Space Feel Huge with These Simple Hacks

Welcome to GSFF! I’m Dian, a wife of over 30 years, Mom to 4 grown kids… Read more about Dian and GSFF

 

Shop Printables

Printable tools to simplify your day.
Budgeting, meal planning, organizing — all in one place.

Browse Now →

Join the List

Get weekly tips, printable freebies, and first dibs on all the good stuff.

Sign Me Up →

This Week’s Freebie

Snag the featured printable of the week before it rotates!

Browse The Collection →

It's Christmas In July.

Back To School Prep Pack

But, first: School

The December Box

December Box

Holiday Chaos Control Kit

Holiday Chaos Control Kit

Plan Your Perfect Holiday

Plan Your Perfect Holiday

Follow on Pinterest

Get smart money tips, printables, and everyday wins — straight from Pinterest.

Follow Us on Pinterest

Dian is a mom of four grown children, Nana to 7 beautiful grands, wife of over 30 years to an amazing husband, social influencer, and blogger. I love all things gardening, saving money, tips & tricks to make life easier, ANY cool new gadget, and feeding my Reality TV addiction (it's real y'all, you have no idea!) Dian has been featured in person, in print, and on sites like Huff Post, CBSNews, Blog Talk Radio, NBC DFW, Babble, Woman's Day, All You Magazine, Super Market News, Clark, & Pinner's Conferences. Want to know more? Check out the full bio here!

Featured On

  • AFN
  • All You
  • CBS
  • Holly Homer Live
  • Huffpost
  • LCFG
  • NBC
  • NQS
  • PRNetwork
  • Project You
  • Savings
  • Supermarket News
  • Thread MB
  • UT Arlington
  • ValPak
  • Womens Money
  • CBS DFW
  • NBC5
  • Daily Moss
  • Savings Guides
  • Making Money
  • Gift Guides
  • DIY
  • Family Living
  • Recipes

GSFF Transparent© 2009–2025  GSFF All Rights Reserved.
No content on this site may be copied and reused in any form or fashion without express written permission.
Privacy Policy